The effects of abuse are varied and far reaching.  For many survivors the skills developed out of necessity during moments of fear, instability and pain are at odds with more mundane coping skills.  The need for self-preservation can foster habits that carry less than ideal side effects.  Many survivors struggle with substance abuse, self-isolation, deep seated mistrust of authority figures and a decreased ability to identify and put forth their own needs. 

In addition to these life challenges, the brain has its own response to trauma, one which often includes unusual memory patterns.  Particularly for survivors of early, repetitive (long-term) or unacknowledged abuse memory patterns allow seemingly insignificant details to act as triggers of detailed memories of the abuse and thus the coping mechanisms developed in response. 

The nature of pregnancy, childbirth, maternity care and childrearing hold an above average likelihood of triggering sharp memories and activating coping mechanisms ranging from panic attacks to disassociation to self-doubt to an extreme need for control.  For more information on the ways traumatic response can manifest click here.